Focus on their Eyes

I made myself all things to all men in order to save some at any cost; and I still do this, for the sake of the gospel, to have a share in its blessings.

1Cor.9:19

Saint Paul writes to encourage the Church of Corinth to give their best for the sake of the good news about Jesus. His model to the Church is to be "all things to all men" in order to gain their trust so they may hear the Gospel.

 To be all things to all men means being present to people as individuals. My wife has a practice when engaging with our grandchildren; "Just focus on their eyes" she says. Lots can be going on around when a grandchild is trying for attention. When I focus on their eyes they know they have me at that moment. 

In our Alpha Course it is tempting to be the organiser, the one speaking from the front. I need to fight this and engage with people individually. I need to be present and focus on their eyes.

Jesus, you were always totally present and met individuals where they were at. You meet me where I am at right now. Thank you Lord. Help me be present to those in my day that I may gain their trust and share your Good News.
Saint Philip Neri, pray for me.