Her husband Joseph; being a man of honour and wanting to spare her publicity, decided to divorce her informally.
Mt.1:19
While the Church rightly honours Mary's birthday, I'm drawn to Joseph her husband. Little is written of Joseph but much can be surmised from the woman he betrothed and the boy he raised.
While Matthew writes that Joseph was "a man of honour" he also records he was a man of mercy, wanting to spare Mary as much fallout from her "unplanned pregnancy" as he could.
Honour and mercy, two great virtues that temper each other. Joseph was not only a law abiding, honourable Jew but a merciful man. His honour defined the landscape in which his mercy worked. His power and strength from honour was controlled and constrained by his mercy. This is meekness, a manly character reminding me of a great warhorse submitting to restraint from its rider.
Today I can be a man of honour and mercy. Mary, Jesus and Joseph, please pray for me.