Were you not bound, then, to have pity on your fellow servant just as I had pity on you?
Mt.18:33
The unforgiving servant failed to fully receive the forgiveness offered him. He never paid it forward.
Forgiveness is by nature reciprocal. Once received it binds me to be forgiving. If I fail in this it shows I never received forgiveness in the first place.
Jesus insists on this because of the power of forgiveness to heal. Imagine a world experiencing a wild outbreak of forgiveness, where foes laid down their arms and said, "Brother, forgive me. I was wrong."
Let's pray it in, starting with me.
Forgive me Lord so I may forgive.